Doesn't this seem all too familiar???
What I think is that they are so easily influenced, that they can so easily think up excuses for the plainly inexcusable, and that they are so adept at maneuvers and manipulation that many would be able to think their way around whatever is said to them.For example, if I told them (as I could of my old church organization), "Your church is based upon the biblical understandings of uneducated persons," they would answer, "Thank God, He can use the base things, the rejected persons, the unwise to do His work, while the educated shake their heads in wonder, having no personal knowledge or understanding."If I told them (as I could of my old church organization), "Many in your church have abused others in the name of God," they would answer, "Yes, the church is full of humans, and humans make mistakes."If I told them (as I could of my old church organization), "Two pastors I had in your church touched me inappropriately," they would answer, "That is not believeable, because if it had happened, you would have said something when it happened, but you didn't."If I told them (as I could of my old church organization), "I was told in your church that if I left your church, I and my family would fail spiritually, personally, and financially, but in fact, we are better off now than we were while in your church," they would answer, "It's not over yet. God is not mocked. Whatsoever you sow, that will you reap."If I told them (as I could of my old church organization), "I had a pastor who stood in the pulpit and bragged about his dirty business dealings, and we lost 95% of the youth grooup because of that and because of his treatment of the youth pastor, who tried to explain," they would answer, "Touch not mine annointed. Even if he did, he was placed in that position by God, and you should have submitted to him."Seriously, I think that many (but certainly not all!) in these organizations have
*completely calloused consciences
*absolute narcissism
*complete lack of empathy which they have learned to fake in order to manage socially
---A poster from ex-Pentecostal Forums discussing the mechanics of spiritual abuse in certain charismatic-Pentecostal groups